Women's Memory

A woman's nerves are strong in many matters, but the situation that freezes the blood in the veins of most men and they do not dare to imagine it is the process of buying.. I do not believe that Antarah bin Shaddad, who wrestled with lions in the desolate valleys with his bare hand, was He dares to do this usual feminine activity: entering a store to see everything, review everything, and ask about everything, while he has no intention of buying and his pocket is completely empty. I have seen many women do this heroic act, while I admit to you that I have bought many things in my life just because I was ashamed of the seller. Anis Mansour narrates in the book (200 Days Around the World) that he was in Singapore enjoying watching the wonderful arrangement in a fruit and vegetable store. Here, a seller snatched it... and Anis found himself leaving the store carrying underwear that the man had sold to him without asking him, and he did not know the reason for its presence. In a fruit store! As a woman gets older, her nerves become more stable and she no longer feels embarrassed at all. I knew a woman of this type who goes to buy something...she knows its price is a hundred pounds...I say to her as I rush out of the store door: “It's over...let's go...” No matter how much you lower the price, it will still be high...but she stands firm and looks on. I am warned to be silent.. This is her battle, and adrenaline has gathered in her blood until it is about to drip from her nose. She says to the seller firmly: “Twenty pounds!” I'm about to run away, but she clamps down on my wrist forcefully. Wait and don't be too frightened. The seller laughs sarcastically and swears on his mother's grave that the price of this thing is 85 pounds. His profit is five pounds, no more. But she seems determined, and in the end she suggests thirty pounds. He turns around. The exhausting separation that lasts for several hours... The seller swears by his mother’s grave a thousand times... It is true that the elderly woman sitting there is his mother, but you accept this as a marketing mechanism... In the end, the woman I am accompanying wins an indescribable price... forty pounds... But she is not satisfied. She feels sad because this means that she could have reached a lower price. Forty pounds. This is a huge victory. She takes out twenty pounds from her bag and confirms: “I only have this one. You can replace it next time.” ..” But the seller has reached the level of Mongol stupidity.. He does not know what to say or what to feel. He wants to get rid of her at any cost, so he agrees. Then she hands him the money and asks him: “I will borrow five pounds from you because you did not leave me money to take home.” I reach my hand into my pocket, but she surprises me with a terrifying look. Don’t ruin everything for me. What a fool you are. The seller hands her five pounds while he is wide-eyed and does not know what is going on around him. If she asked him for the keys to his house or his account number in the bank, he would gladly give it to her. Life for him is divided into before meeting this woman, which is a happy stage, and after meeting her, which is hell. In the end, we leave the store carrying the thing that was worth a hundred pounds and became fifteen. She says to me sadly: “Maybe if I had made a greater effort, it would have been ten pounds.” “If I had made a greater effort, the seller would have given us money or given us the entire store to get rid of us.” “I do not like to be deceived by anyone,” and because she does not like to be deceived by anyone, she breaks the nerves and minds of sellers everywhere. As I told you, women have much stronger nerves than men, and we cannot dream of being like them under any circumstances.. #Ahmed_Khaled_Tawfiq #Bunyan_Library